How to Approach Women in Medellin Colombia

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There are a lot of guys who sign up for a free dating site in order to meet women. But the problem is that digital or not, some men just do not learn how to approach women. There are even others that are afraid at the mere thought of it. The good thing is that there is a lot of help out there for people who do not know how to approach other people in order to land a date.

Approaching another person is pivotal in order for a date to happen, that’s generally how things go. Person A approaches Person B and then asks them out on a date and hopefully Person B agrees to it. But before both parties agree to see each other, the proposition of a date has to be brought up first.

But not everyone has the social skills needed in order to approach another person. Not everyone is capable of even speaking to someone in whom they have a romantic interest. They make their approach and whatever words they have are completely forgotten and they find themselves unable to do so much as start a conversation.

The Preparation

Not everyone has social graces, but there are more than a few ways to develop the skills necessary or even to circumvent the need to have these skills in the first place. There are a lot of ways for a person to land a date even if they are not the smoothest or the most suave of people. Here are some simple tricks you can use:

1. Eye to Eye

One important thing about approaching a woman to ask her out on a date is to maintain eye contact. That’s an important thing to note when talking to someone. But sometimes that is not possible because you ask out the person you met on a free online dating site.

But looking someone in the eye is not just something that you do when you ask someone out on a date, it’s just something that’s done because it’s the polite thing to do in general.

2. A Dating Coach

One great way to be able to approach a girl is to develop the social skills needed in order to have an interaction that is not completely awkward. One way to develop those skills is to hire a dating coach, someone who can tell you what you’re doing wrong with your social interactions and teach you to turn those wrongs into rights.

Of course, if you do intend to go down this particular route, you should pick the right coach. When seeking advice from a professional, it’s important for personalities to mesh well in order for lessons to be truly ingrained.

3. Practice with Friends

Another great way for a person to develop the skills that they need in order to ask someone out on a date is to practice those skills on friends. You can ask help from a female friend or a male friend, just as long as there’s another human being there for you to practice your skills on. Hopefully practice would sharpen your social skills because you need them if you want to know how to approach women.

The Actual Approach

Now, the skills developed are kind of useless unless they are actually put to use. But even if you do have the skills needed to approach women, you may not be aware of the best places to meet them.

Now, there are a lot of places to meet women and not all of them are online. One of the benefits of online dating is that you would be able to interact with women that you normally wouldn’t meet in your neck of the woods. With that said, here are other ways to make meeting (and eventually dating) women go more smoothly:

1. Go Online

While it’s easier to meet women out in the real world, dating sites can help you meet these women in person. In fact, a lot of couples first met online before dating in person.

Signing up for a dating service can make it a lot easier to find women. Once you find someone, a great way to make your approach is to be direct about and just ask them out. Online dating also helps build chemistry so that the actual meet-up goes smoothly.

2. Like Toast

Another way to start asking someone out is to compliment them first (basically butter them up). This does not mean to spread butter on them like they’re toast, but it does mean to pay them a couple of compliments before you ask them out.

Feeling good about herself can make your love interest more likely to respond positively to a new proposition, like a date with someone like you. People who are being complimented are more likely to be open to new experiences and new people with whom to share those experiences.

So if you do find yourself across a woman you want to date, make it a point to pay them a couple of compliments before you bring up the possibility of dating.

3. Make Them Laugh

One great way to convince someone to like you is to make them laugh. Women actually like it a lot when a man can make them laugh because a sense of humor is pretty important in a potential partner. But making someone laugh is a skill that not everyone has.

So if you do have the ability to make her laugh, then joke away. Though it should be noted that humor is pretty much rooted in culture. This means that jokes that landed with your buddies may not be received all that well by women from a different country than yours.

To be on the safe side, make sure your jokes aren’t considered taboo in whatever country she’s from.

4. Be a Gentleman

Confidence tends to make people act in ways that they normally would not. So a man with too much confidence runs the risk of looking like he doesn’t have any manners. When you approach a woman for a date, remember your manners. After all, being a gentleman is one way to win her heart.

Not everyone knows how to approach women. But people can learn how and there are a lot of ways to learn such a skill.